The distinguishing feature of the ultimate reality or God is that there are no sides.
Not only does God not take sides, He does not recognize our sides at all.
To Him there is no us and them.
So there is no profit in trying to win.
Trying to win our side against another side.
All are equal.
All are equally loved
We are encouraged to forgive.
To forgive others as God has forgiven us.
Then there are no sides.
Only imperfect human beings.
Human beings make mistakes.
Our mistakes are forgiven.
Forgive your enemies.
And be like God.